When you are a college student, it
may seem like the ‘real world’ is a ways a way.
Ahhh I’m going to have a real job soon, not be able to naps in between
classes, and have the responsibility of all my own bills and expenses. I remember feeling this way and also feeling
like my opinions and my voice did not have that big of an impact.
In October on campus we celebrated
domestic abuse awareness month. This was
this first time I noticed students on campus speaking out, scratch that maybe
it was the first time I really listened.
I was taking a Women’s Rights class and was learning about obviously
women’s rights so I became interested in the activities surrounding domestic
abuse awareness month. One activity was
Women on Wednesdays, this actually happened throughout the semester and
featured women speakers on a variety of topics.
During the month of October domestic abuse and sexual abuse survivors
told their stories. Some were older
women who spoke at a variety of venues, others were panels of survivors that
told their stories, and would answer questions from the audience.
It was very powerful to hear the
stories of all the women, but something really spoke to me when I heard the
stories of fellow students. Here were
people my age telling their stories of survival and having an impact on their
peer group. It seems to me that I generally
put forth a larger effort to listen to someone I can relate to. Now upon reflection I can realize the importance
of students speaking out, it holds so much power.
As I approached the end of my
undergrad I was asked to sit on a panel during a Women on Wednesday, and I
declined, due to some frivolous work conflict.
I really wish I would have taken that opportunity to share my knowledge and
experiences with my peer group. I greatly
regret not taking this opportunity to realize my voice and the impact it could
have had on students.
This semester when you are on
campus and students are speaking out about something that interests you take
the time to stop and listen. It may
learn something about yourself or it just might in a way change your life. Also if you get the opportunity to speak out
on campus take it, what you have to say can impact someone else's life.
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