Tuesday, February 17, 2015

No Grey Area in Consent: by blogger Joyce



Lately we are seeing more commercials for the premiere of the movie of Fifty Shades of Grey. I have never read the book, nor have the desire to read it or watch it on the big screen. Although I know the adage “don’t judge a book by its cover”, from what I’ve heard and read about the book, I do not understand how consensual abuse is sexy. The previews show the female putting her wrists together so that the male lover can put her under bondage. I’ve seen so many reviews that the book is sensual, erotic, and exhilarating, but how is being spanked something to be envied and coveted? I just cannot wrap my head around this one.



It is one thing for there to be adult trash novels and pornography; it is another thing when the X-rated or R-rated movie versions show their previews on public access channels that our kids can see. They will become curious and learn that it is mainstream and totally acceptable behavior. Who knows? This may contribute to more rape and sexual assaults all across the board. This public broadcasting may also encourage people to not listen to “NO” and to think that the other person secretly wants rough and forced sex.



I am generally appalled by any scary, sexually-charged or violent previews or commercials on TV…which leads me wondering why every TV program must show its rating, but commercials are excused from this requirement. Damage can be done in thirty seconds, or even less.

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